The what’s next syndrome?

I don’t know about you but I have been struggling with this from the time I first graduated. I remember walking off the stage super excited about just graduating. The following day, I was worried about an upcoming test that I needed to study for. Got my first job and I was already at, “What financial goals do I need to set? or ” I need medical aid now.”

Don’t get me wrong. These are all incredible things to do, but when will I ever just hit pause.

I don’t know if it may be a good indication of the circle that I found myself in. It is unfortunately, incredibly concerning that I can’t even take the time to simmer certain achievements just for the sake of, “What’s next?”. I recall a time where I could just sit, simmer, breath and take in the moment. I would smile for days. Be in awe for months. I had those, “Wait Khethi, did that just happen?” moments.

So I guess I wrote this blog to urge you that in the next contract you sign or the next milestone that you reach in your relationships. I urge you to celebrate yourself. I urge you to bask in the glory and the mighty act that God just did for you.

It took a lot of blood, sweat and tears to get there. Go on…

” Celebrate yourself.”

In the words of Maya Angelou, success is liking yourself, liking what you do and how you do it..

God bless beloveds.

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